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I recently solicited responses from men "only" to the following straight-up question.


So that all can feel free to speak the unfiltered truth, no full names of respondents are posted unless they request that their names be revealed.   

Some young men have expressed that eventhough circumstances could easily suggest the opposite, they are certain, without a doubt, that their girlfriends are being sexually monogamous. Without passing judgment, questioning anyone's moral standards, or condemning anyone, from the male perspective, is it ever really possible to "just" know without question, based on what your girlfriends' or female partners' behaviors may be during the act or otherwise, whether they are having sex with someone other than you?
B.O. said:  It is responsible to use protection whether or not his girlfriend is sexually active or not with other people. The only person you can trust is actually you, sad to say but it is the truth. If he does his own part, which is easier, the work is 99% done. Hope this helps. -8))
M.R. said: I agree 100% with B.